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The 5 Reasons Why People Stop Believing Their Soul Mates Are Out There

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The only claim we make is that we do everything in our power to plant that seed of curiosity.

Author: By John H Valentine

 So many questions can evolve around a soul mate. For example is there such a person and if so does he/she live in the present time? Could a soul mate simply mean some kind of spiritual guide where someone, somehow, is watching over us? Does a soul mate have to be of the opposite sex to us or do our sexual inclinations dictate this? These are just a few of the questions regarding this subject. Once a soul mate has been identified, does it necessarily mean that there has to be romantic connections also? You may have guessed that I don't have the answers to this. However, when it came to writing  "The Meadow", there was no ambiguity. We identified two souls who were inextricably bound to each other throughout eternity. Maybe this is the way people like to think of what true soul mates are. If so, you will enjoy what  "The Meadow" has in store for you. - Mike O'Hare


The 5 Reasons Why People Stop Believing Their Soul Mates Are Out There

By John H Valentine


Each and every time we break up our idea of a "soul mate" dies just a little. When we fall in love, we are convinced that we have found our one and only partner.  However, when we break up, rather than admitting that we were mistaken about the identity of  that person being our one and true love, it is easier to accept that such things are a myth. Also, if we are the person who was dumped, it is easier not to believe in them than to accept the fact that we were dumped by our possible soul mate!

The energy, time, and money we need to find a soul mate are enormous. Most of us do not have those resources to find them. Rather, we will tend to lower our standards and compromise on the best person we can find: "Mr/Mrs Right Now" rather than "Mr/Mrs Right". It will drive most of us crazy to realize the thought that we have committed our life to that one person who is not what they should be.

We know that we need to find and get that person but we feel it would be far too risky to sacrifice our savings or mortgage our house to buy a nationally run advert to find that one person. So, to  reduce emotional distress and prevent possible financial risk,  we abandon our beliefs about them being out there, and learn to live without that true love. Eventually, many of us will get tired of this "half-ass" or "practical" love and get divorced.

The presence of children can also "kill" the idea of us finding a true partner. Those of us with children will offer the excuse that we are "living for the children" and we will pour all of our attention and love into that bond rather than looking for the one person out there who can share the load.

If we don't have children or pets to look out for then our soul mate can become our job. Longer hours at the office, amongst our colleagues, seems to fill that hole in our lives. "Married to the Job" rather than "Married to the Mob"


So, break-ups, resources, risk, children and work are the five reasons for people stopping the belief that their soul mates are out there just waiting in the wings.

John H Valentine is an author of various articles on finding those one true partners we all know are out there. To follow the series please look out for further articles.

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"The Meadow" is an epic love story unlike anything told before. The storyline threads an earthly path through four life times, from ancient Mexica to contemporary Pakistan, and affords the reader glimpses of a place known as "The Meadow" - an inter-life waterhole where souls rest between lives.


This is a story about life and all its complexities. It is about the eternal love of two characters that seem destined to be together but who repeatedly fail to bond due to a nemesis that tracks them from life to life, tearing them apart.


The stage of "The Meadow" includes hate and retribution, international espionage and political deceit, interspersed with the brilliance of an autistic savant, offspring of the female protagonist, who tries to solve the secret and mystery of the eagle in order to save his mother.


The frustrated lovers thus have only one option - to unite in the Meadow - a place they forget all about each time they incarnate into a new life.


This site is dedicated to "The Meadow", a book of more than 600 pages and has yet to be published, but it is also devoted to sharing information about life beyond the trapdoor of death, inviting the reader to question everything, from dogmatic beliefs to the establishment.


There are many related articles here and we hope that there will be something for everyone. We hope to encourage communication and discussion between likeminded individuals willing to share their experiences to further our common goals of advancement into the future whilst learning from each other.

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